Tuesday, January 18, 2011


A Celebration of Miles' life will be held at the Calgary Golf and Country Club, 50th Avenue and Elbow Drive SW, on Friday, January 21 from 3 to 7 pm. If you wish to participate in the full program, please be seated by 3:15.

We also invite you to share your happiest memory of Miles by posting a comment below or emailing it to emccoy@macleodinstitute.com. Your memories will be included in a Legacy Scrapbook which will become a family treasure.


Remembering Miles ....

Miles Hudson Patterson, QC, died at home peacefully on Saturday, January 15. He is lovingly survived by his wife, Senator Elaine McCoy; his four children (Pip, Jack (Eva), Pam (Joop) and Neil (Judith)); 9 grandchildren; and 3 great grandchildren.

Born 88 years ago in Calgary, Alberta, Miles lived a life inspired by intellectual curiosity, a fierce loyalty to family and friends, and a commitment to principle. He was kind, generous, and genuinely funny with his dry wit and abiding love of the English language.

Miles graduated from high school at the age of 16. Son to Ward and Gertrude, his early years were filled with an eclectic mix of studies and outdoor pursuits. He loved the Boy's Own Annual and one of his fondest memories was attempting to build a radio following its instructions. Everything went well until he tried turning it on … nothing worked! He tried and tried again; finally Ward took pity on him and brought home a magnificent cherry wood console radio for Christmas. It was Ward, too, who introduced Miles to the joys of mountain hiking, fishing and canoeing.

Miles' lifetime love of cooking was also rooted in his childhood years. Because Gertrude was frequently bedridden, she enlisted Miles' help from an early age. He often spoke with affection of his mother's great sense of humour and how she instilled in her young son a love of wordplay. He recalled making his first pun on board a ship taking him and Gertrude to England in 1926. When a fellow shipmate asked how old he was, he replied "I was four when I left but I've been sicks (six) on the ship!"

After high school, Miles got his first full time job at the Commerce Bank as it was then known. Although still too young to enlist, he was nevertheless eager to join the war effort which he finally managed to do in 1941. Lying about his age and fudging his eye examination, he enlisted in the Royal Canadian Corps of Signals with the 5th Canadian (Armoured) Division and served overseas in WWII until 1945. He fought his way up through Italy, participated in the Battle of Monte Cassino as well as many others, and then continued north to liberate the Netherlands. Ever afterwards, Miles said he'd been lucky to have a Grand Tour of Europe – he only wished he hadn't been wearing a brown suit the whole time.

Back in Canada, Miles attended the University of Alberta. His initial thought was to become a history professor, until he found out that their annual stipend was only $5,000. His father's advice to follow him into the law suddenly became much more attractive. He therefore enrolled in law, at which he excelled. Along the way, he met and married Phyllis Owen. Their first child, Philip, was born in 1949. Miles promptly nicknamed his son 'Pip' after the character in Dickens' Great Expectations. He spent many hours with Pip perched on his shoulders as he studied for his final exams.

Three more children arrived in quick succession – Pam in 1952, Jack in 1953 and Neil in 1954. Miles devoted himself to his young family. Although busy building his career as a court room lawyer, he always came home at dinner time to play with the children, have dinner with them and then put them to bed, often reading them classics such as Alice in Wonderland, Winnie the Pooh and Wind in the Willows. He would then return to the office where he worked until the wee hours of the morning.

In 1957, Miles was appointed Counsel to the Royal Commission on Energy (the Borden Commission) which had been established by Prime Minister Diefenbaker. The key issue was whether or not to build an oil pipeline from Edmonton to Montreal to open Canadian markets for independent Alberta producers. The Commission concluded that a pipeline should be built only as far east as the Ottawa Valley. The government accepted its recommendation, which became known as the National Oil Policy. Markets west of central Ontario, as well as those south of the border, therefore became the preserve of western Canadian producers. In addition, the Commission suggested that the National Energy Board (NEB) be created to administer the policy; it began operations in 1961.

Miles next became intrigued with the possibility of producing oil offshore, which at that time was a frontier that few people could fathom. He undertook extensive studies of geological formations in the North Sea, and hit upon the idea that Norway, with its great shipbuilding tradition, could leverage its expertise to build floating offshore platforms. For most of the next decade, Miles regularly commuted between Calgary and Oslo as he helped establish Norway's offshore oil and gas industry. In 1967, he took his entire family on a trip to Norway to christen the first ever drill ship.

In the meantime, Miles at the age of 40 became an accredited Level Two ski instructor. He received top honours in his graduating class for his prowess in teaching as well as for his ability to ski. He became famous for two techniques … the 'outhouse crouch' (a tuck designed to optimize speed in downhill racing) and the 'OMG turn' (the moment at which you're sure you're going to fall, which is the precise moment you make those skis turn and execute the perfect downhill manoeuvre). He also got all four children involved in competitive downhill racing, volunteering endless weekends as a race marshall, chauffeur and coach. His love of coaching and rhetoric transferred easily to the dining room table. His children recall neverending debates on a wide range of topics as they learned to digest ideas along with their father's experimental menus.

Miles became Chair of the Alberta Public Utilities Board (PUB) in 1972, and married his secretary, Joy Chapman, the following year. They subsequently moved back to Calgary where he went into private practice (later becoming Counsel to Howard Mackie). His first big case was representing the City of Edmonton in its succesful bid to break into the Alberta power generation business. Against all the odds, Miles convinced the Energy Resources Conservation Board (ERCB) that a municipality could and should generate electricity both for its own needs and for other customers.

Another landmark case arose in 1980. Atco Ltd. initiated a hostile take over bid for Calgary Power, now known as TransAlta Utilities (TAU). Miles was retained by TAU to represent its interests before the PUB, where Elaine McCoy was Senior Legal Counsel. Again against all the odds, Miles' innovative arguments won the day all the way up to the Supreme Court of Canada.

In 1988, two months after the Winter Olympics in Calgary, Miles and Elaine were married and celebrated their wedding at the Calgary Golf and Country Club. Miles' penchant for coaching immediately came to the fore. While snow was still on the slopes, Miles was keen to initiate Elaine into his skiing world. He took her to the baby slope on Sunshine – nothing worked. Pixie dust, nothing! He ever afterwards maintained that she was his one and only failure as a ski instructor. When the snows melted, however, he introduced her to flyfishing. Eureka! She took to it immediately … for the next two decades, Elaine and Miles passionately pursued the sport on the Bow, the Crowsnest, in the Canadian Arctic and all along the great barrier reef on the east coast of the Americas.

1994 saw Miles once again back in front of the National Energy Board (NEB), this time representing InterProvincial Pipelines Ltd. (now Enbridge) in another historical first – the Multi-Pipeline Cost of Capital hearing. The hearing went on and on. As proceedings finally drew nearer to closing arguments, Miles conceived of the idea to present his client's position by way of a poem, in order to introduce some sense of proportion to the issues. His were the final words in the hearing. In rhyming couplets, he summed up the arguments pro and con in brilliant fashion … everyone in the courtroom hung on his every word. When he sat down, the entire room erupted in spontaneous applause. Never before had a lawyer received a standing ovation for his presentation.

Miles retired from public practice after helping the Government of the Northwest Territories establish its own Public Utilities Board. Miles drafted its enabling statute, acted as Board counsel and served as a member of the Board.

In retirement, Miles continued to explore ideas, support his family, and espouse the basic principles of fairness and respect for others. He was, to the very end, the mainstay his family relied upon. We shall miss him, but his legacy of laughter and love will live on.



172 comments:

  1. From: Ralph Hyde, QC

    Miles Patterson, better known to me as Pat, and I became classmates of the Law Faculty at the University of Alberta after the war.

    We did not know one another before we became classmates. We did, however, become fast friends. Pat was extremely bright and did not suffer fools willingly.

    However, he made an exception in my case. I had no experience in fishing. He was a fine fisherman and patiently taught me to become reasonably competent. With another classmate, the late Arthur Crossley, we became fishing buddies for a week each year from 1951 to 1990.

    Pat and I remained close friends until his recent passing. I will miss him, but I have many happy memories of the time we shared together.

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  2. From: Bev MacLeod
    Dear Elaine,

    I am saddened to read that you have lost your Miles. although I have been unable to come to your Christmas party the last couple of years, I value your friendship, and feel privileged to have met Miles. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

    Bev MacLeod.

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  3. From: Margaret Lounds and Bruce Kirkpatrick

    Miles was such a gracious, nattily attired host. What I remember most about Miles are the countless conversations about many different subjects, thoughtful, insightful,
    gravely spoken but always with a twinkle in his eye.
    He enjoyed the repartee and the exchange of ideas. It was a privilege to have known him.

    Our sympathies to you Elaine and to the children and grandchildren.

    Margaret Lounds and Bruce Kirkpatrick

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  4. From: Steven Wirth

    Dear Elaine & Jack,
    I'm saddened to hear of your loss, but also smiling appreciatively at my memories of Miles. His intelligence, wit and conversation were a gift to experience. Please know that I'm sending you and yours good energy and thoughts during these days.

    Fondly,
    Steve Wirth
    Georgetown, Indiana

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  5. Dear Elaine,

    I'm sorry to read about Miles. I want you to know Gail and I are thinking about you.

    Regards,
    Ross Risvold

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  6. Dear Elaine and Jack,

    My heart aches for you with the loss of Miles.
    I have such fond memories of sitting at your diningroom table Elaine, listening to Miles tell such evocative stories of his life.
    I will miss him.
    Blessings and love to you.
    Woolley (aka, Phyllis)
    ~
    Phyllis Woolley,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  7. Dear Elaine,

    My deepest condolence upon the loss of your husband. You are in my thoughts and held in my heart as you face this loss. You are surrounded by family and friends and we all hope this is a comfort to you.

    Clete Kiley,
    Arlington, Virginia

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  8. Dear Elaine,
    I am sorry to hear of your loss and I offer you my sympathies and condolences. I understand your feelings of loss as I just lost my mom on January 2nd. I am firm believer that our loved ones are now at peace and are no longer struggling. I hope you find comfort in that.

    You are in my thoughts,


    Patti Papirnik,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  9. My thoughts and prayers are with you Elaine.


    Jane Vallentyne,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  10. Dear Elaine
    My thoughts and heart are with you. Also sending you all the energy I have.
    Your Friend

    Tim Jantzie,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  11. Dear Elaine:

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know it will be difficult but also know you are very strong.

    Annette Trimbee,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  12. Dear Jack,

    With our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this sad time. You are in our thoughts.

    Your colleagues at Emerge

    Natalie Macaulay,
    Calgary, Alberta

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  13. Dad I will miss you loads and love all the special gifts and memories you have given me to cherish. Your loving daughter Pamela


    Pamela Patterson

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  14. On 1/18/2011 10:12 PM, Ted Kelly wrote:

    I was sorry to read of your loss Elaine. Diana and I send best thoughts to you and family. The tribute was well written, appropriate for a vital and interesting man who lived life so fully. Miles beat the odds in more than his litigation career, when he found you as an intellectual equal and loving companion for the later chapters of his life story. What an accomplished couple you made. Your annual Christmas gatherings were special. We would like very much to be with all of you Friday, but it is not possible, so we join with you from afar in honouring Miles and expressing our respect and admiration. Good health to you, be well.

    ted

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  15. Miles and I acted together as special counsel to Transalta Utilities during its take-over bid battles with Canadian Utilities in the 1980s. His greatest victory as a lawyer then was to obtain a favorable judgment from the Supreme Court of Canada confirming the power of the Alberta Utilities’ Commission to rule upon a take-over-bid for Transalta. He persuaded the Court to depart from the common law rule limiting the jurisdiction of the Commission to the express powers enumerated in the enabling statute, as the statute itself was an exception to the common law. Rather he persuaded the Court to extend such powers to embrace the full scope of the Commission’s intended purposes; a technical, but landmark, decision.
    Miles, a warm and persuasive companion as well as a fine legal mind, made a very positive contribution to our endeavours and to life.

    John B. Claxton, QC, Montreal

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  16. Dear Elaine: I am saddened by the news of the loss of your loving husband. I think of you often and will hold you and your family closer in this time of your sorrow.


    Bill Adams,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  17. Dear Elaine
    Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We did not even know that your husband was not well.
    You will no doubt take solace in the memories of the great life that you had together.
    Please, could you ask someone to send me details about the memorial.

    Thank you.
    Chan (also Dhamitha)

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  18. Oh Elaine: I am so sorry for your loss. I celebrate the love you shared with Miles. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers--may the comfort, love and peace we send ease some of your pain. Blessings.

    Jean Holsten,
    Sacramento, CA

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  19. Dear Elaine,

    I grieve with you in the loss of your dear Miles. Please know how very much friends near and far hold you in this time of rending passage. With blessing and love.

    Sandra Lommasson,
    Sacramento, California

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  20. Dear Elaine and family,

    We extend our sincere sympathy. Knowing Miles was a real privilege for us. His willingness to share some of his reminiscences with us, especially of his war-time experiences in Holland, will never be forgotten. We thank God for men like Miles, may he rest in peace.

    John & Diana Van Vliet

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  21. Elaine,
    Please accept my sincere sympathy for the loss of Miles. He was always kind to me and treated me well at work.
    I foundMiles to be a most interesting individual ; among other things, as a ski instructor and as an owner/operator of a mine in BC; I thought he did an excellent job as Chairman of the PUB.
    I trust you are keeping well and that you find your job as a Senator interesting and satisfying.

    With kind regards,
    Nick Romalo, Edmonton (82 years old in July)

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  22. Elaine,
    I first met Miles at the Calgary airport. You and I traveled back together from Edmonton that evening and, at the end of our flight, I offered you a ride home. You said no thanks - that someone was meeting you. As we entered the concourse, it became immediately clear who was meeting you. That would be the tall gentleman with the dancing eyes and ear-to-ear smile directed your way. What joy in his face at seeing you. I'm very glad you had those times together. Please accept our sincere condolences.
    Bev Reynolds and Dave Smith

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  23. Hello, Elaine,

    I am so, so sorry to hear about Miles and the great loss you have suffered.
    My mother died just after Christmas, and even though she was just shy of her
    90th birthday, her death was a blow, and I can't imagine a world without
    her. I can only think that you will feel the same way. Please accept my
    heartfelt condolences.

    Regards,


    Christine E. Silverberg, M.A., APR, LL.B.

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  24. Miles (or Mr. Patterson, as I respectfully addressed him) made sure that not one of my bookkeeping visits passed without a lovely little chat. He never failed to inquire about my mother’s health and general state of mind, nor did he ever have anything but positive things to say about his own.

    Miles was sharp-witted not only for his years, but for any age. He would surprise me with interesting tidbits of information that covered a wide range of subjects. To the caregivers’ and my great amusement, he would occasionally have me “Google” whatever might be crossing his mind at the moment: canine breeds, places, my first name, my last name, etc. (He already knew that “Hildegard” had a bit of historical significance, but wanted me to find out for myself.)

    I will miss the interest he showed in the unremarkable content of this bookkeeper’s daily life. Miles gave me the gift of “feeling special”.

    Hildegard Weinert
    Didsbury, AB

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  25. When I think of Grandpa Miles, I remember all of the nature hikes, the bird watching and the fly fishing. When we weren't outdoors I remember having sleep overs at his house watching movies and playing with his mini sandbox.

    When I was old enough, we would all sit around the big round glass table and Grandpa Miles would teach me a thing or two about history and make me laugh all at the same time by speaking of his stories from the war and the life line of his profession. I always looked forward to hearing his skiing stories and the parties at the cabin, our birthday fly fishing stories and everything else in between.

    I'm going to miss his witty sense of humor and his genuine love.

    Amy-Marie Holland
    Calgary, AB

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  26. My fondest memory is coming to stay the weekends with you two.

    I loved Grandpa Miles cooking dinner for us and then staying up late to watch Doctor Who reruns at 2 am in the morning.

    Miles Holland
    Calgary, AB

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  27. I wish I could have spent more time up there (I grew up in the US) so I could have got to know Grandpa Miles better. All of my memories of him are positive. I remember making snow angels in the yard of the house he had with Joy! That big beautiful dog he had there as well. The couch that was sooo cool … the 1st time I saw a trash compactor was at his house!

    He's also always been fun to hang out with. Good sense of humor, great story teller, never mean or angry. He will be missed. I really want to make family trips more of a priority – we need to enjoy each other while we are alive!!

    Marnee Nicholson
    Mesa, Arizona

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  28. I didn't get to see Grandpa as much as I would have liked (because I live in the US). I do remember talking to him about his (fat!!) cats and fishing - 2 things we both loved!

    I do have one memory that I will always cherish – we were at Grandpa Miles' and Auntie Elaine's house for a Christmas Dinner a few years ago. We had Christmas crackers – the kind you pull apart – and paper hats, jokes and little toys fall out. We all wore our paper hats and I got a "gold" ring – I still have that ring to this day and now it means more to me than ever.

    I will miss Grandpa Miles a lot, but I know he is happy and hopefully catching lots of fish!

    Jordan Patterson
    Houston, TX

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  29. One New Year's Day, we arose in Banff at 5:30 a.m. for ski camp. Jack and I, being the perfect children that we were, grabbed our stuff, jumped into the Ford woody station wagon, and sat as quietly as we could in the back. Before we left, Dad asked if we had all our equipment. Of course we did!!

    About 15 minutes later, Jack and I realized that we in fact did NOT have our boots! We considered our options. Should we tell Dad about this catastrophe or not? I, as the youngest, felt that was not the wisest option – seeing that Jack was older, he should break the news. Finally we decided we should both tell Dad the bad news and did so about an hour later. Of course that pleased Dad all to hell, as he had to drive all the way back to get the boots. But as we grew older, that was one of the humorous stories that we all reminisce about when we get together.

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    My earliest and best memories of my Dad revolved about food – cooking, tasting and eating some of the Dad’s delicacies. I remember that Dad was a little bit of a connoisseur and wanted his children to try different tastes. I believe that all parents do.

    However, I was 5 years younger than my eldest brother (Philip) so
    products such as “tongue and sweetbreads” were not on my list of favorite dishes. Even today I don’t think I have eaten tongue since those early days. But as I grew up I began to appreciate those times with my dad. He really could cook and I found that I enjoyed learning to cook and trying new recipes etc.

    I will miss my Dad a lot. He was extremely intelligent and a had wicked sense of humour.

    Neil Patterson
    Vancouver, BC

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  30. Almost all my favourite memories of Grandpa involve two things: 1) food and 2) books (Sometimes, books about food.)

    Dance class sausages: I love sausages. Absolutely adore them. In fact I am fairly certain that I could eat sausages every day. Every Saturday after dance class dad and I would go help grandpa do his grocery shopping. And after groceries we would eat sausages. Sausages with fried tomatoes. I can still taste them. (Grandpa called me the sausage girl.)

    Chocolate lover's cake at Le Chat: On Satrudays when we were not eating sausage and tomatoes at Grandpa's house we were at a french cafe (which sadly no longer exists) called Le Chat (now Vicious Circle). Grandpa would order me a giant slab of chocolate lover's cake and let me walk along the mirrored bar.
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    The beautiful car: In the era of sausages and cake Grandfather drove a jag. I adored being in the jag. I called it 'the beautiful car.' And it was beautiful – it smelled of leather and something unnameable but wonderful. Everywhere I went with Grandfather was prefaced by; "Grandpa, are we taking the beautiful car?"
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    Books, glorious books: I can't remember how old I was when Grandpa first let me walk into his library to choose books for myself (14/15?). But I can remember how difficult it was to choose just two. And of course I remember the books I chose: The Age of Innocence and The Complete Tales of Edgar Allen Poe Such beautiful books...

    Emails: Recently Grandpa started sending me emails. Mostly, anecdotes, memories and questions. Like whether or not there is a species of trout peculiar to the Moroccan area of North Africa. (A question I still do not know the answer to.) I loved recieving them. I live so far away; it was nice to know that Grandpa was thinking of me.

    Sarah Patterson
    Montreal, QC

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  31. My friendship with Miles spans over a lifetime, some 45 years. I met Miles in 1965 during one of the many ski weeks we had at Sunshine Village. A young 40 years old lawyer from Calgary, he was looking for an escape from daily pressures of practising law. It did not take this young man very long to fit into the social and mountain ski life. Making friends was easy for Miles, as was skiing – a love affair he had with the mountains, skiing and the art of ski teaching. He was the best.

    We have many more stories from the ski slopes of Sunshine Village, our home ski area (the Wednesday swim bus, the Mountain Home, Cascade Hotel, ski courses) ... but I'll leave some of those stories for my colleagues to tell....
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    I recall one day a few years ago, Miles asked if I would be interested in coming down to Coleman and try some fly fishing in the Crowsnest River. I informed my friend I had limited experience in the art of fly fishing. Miles immediately told me not to worry.

    The lesson began as soon we were on the road. It was a fun and a memorable long weekend, practising casting skills on the lawn, selecting the proper barbless hook and fly, then finally going to the river's edge to demonstrate my new skills. The objective was to deliver the fly to a preselected spot, allowing the current to float it down towards where (Miles promised) a fish was waiting. What a thrill! Miles was the expert, I the student – the best 4 days I ever spent with my friend ... fishing, chatting and enjoying fine refreshments. Miles will always be in my heart and mind – so long, dear friend.
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    Miles had attended the CSIA - ASI ski course – at the conclusion of the week a final banquet is always held to honour successful candidates. Only about 1/3 or a half of the candidates usually pass, and because the committee holds the results secret until the very end, anticipation always runs high.

    The year Miles participated, Ken Baker was the course director. He started the roll call of successful candidates, handing each one a CSIA Pin which proudly proclaims their membership in this elite group of skiers. He came to the last one, and sat down. Miles name had not been called! People begin whispering "What? Miles didn't make it?" And then, slowly, with a grin, Ken stands up and says "Oh, I almost forgot … we have one more successful candidate – Miles Patterson – and, he was top of the class!" Everyone burst out with loud applause – he was a very popular guy.

    Roy Andersen
    Banff, AB

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  32. Elaine, Miles endeared himself to me last October, during my very short visits with him in Calgary! He was SO gracious...and I know he loved you dearly!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!

    Sister Sandra Brunenn

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  33. Miles and I acted together as special counsel to Transalta Utilities during its take-over bid battles with Canadian Utilities in the 1980s. His greatest victory as a lawyer then was to obtain a favourable judgement from the Supreme Court of Canada confirming the power of the Alberta Public Utilities Board to rule upon a take-over bid for Transalta. He persuaded the Court to depart from the common law rule limiting the jurisdiction of the Board to the express powers enumerated in the enabling statute. As the statute itself was an exception to the common law, he persuaded the Court to extend such powers to embrace the full scope of the Board’s intended purposes – a technical, but landmark, decision.

    Miles, a warm and persuasive companion as well as a fine legal mind, made a very positive contribution to our endeavours and to life.

    John B. Claxton, QC
    Montreal, QC

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  34. Miles had a great sense of fun. He told me one time that he was at the bus stop on a cold day. He overheard two men talking about some children who were playing in the snow nearby. The children weren't overly warmly dressed.

    One man said to the other, “These Canadians – they aren't like us. They don't love their children like we do.” Of course, the men talking were Americans and I am an American ... I could see Miles' eyes twinkling away as he told this story.
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    When someone we love dies, we feel a great sense of loss – that's natural. But we did have them for a time, sometimes for a long time. We might never have known them or enjoyed them or cherished them as we have. Miles was a person I would not like to have missed. When I think of that I think of the poem by Jane Kenyon entitled Otherwise:

    I got out of bed on two strong legs. It might have been otherwise.
    I ate cereal, sweet milk, ripe, flawless peach. It might have been otherwise.
    I took the dog uphill to the birch wood. All morning I did the work I love. At noon I lay down with my mate. It might have been otherwise.
    We ate dinner together at a table with silver candlesticks. It might have been otherwise.
    I slept in a bed in a room with paintings on the walls, and planned another day just like this day.
    But one day, I know, it will be otherwise.

    Rest in Peace, Miles
    Alan G Deale
    New London NH

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  35. Miles Patterson, brother in law and friend … I have always appreciated knowing Miles. Two years ago I came out to Calgary to spend a few days with him …

    We enjoyed reminiscing and talking about family matters; a great picnic we had with our children on the Bow River bank, his wedding to Elaine McCoy which I performed, his father whom I respected and liked a great deal. And of course we talked about WW II. I appreciated having a first person account of the battle of Monte Cassino where Miles was wounded.

    Alan G Deale
    New London NH

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  36. My first memory of Uncle Miles is when I was about 7 years old. We took a summer road trip from our home in Rockford, Illinois to Calgary in an old green Chevy station wagon.

    We were a bit road weary when we arrived in Calgary. Our first night in Calgary we had a great picnic on the bank of the Elbow River. Uncle Miles got “take out” from Kentucky Fried Chicken. This was around 1964 and we had never had KFC before. I fondly remember playing with my cousins, splashing in the river and eating fried chicken out of a “bucket” and drinking cola. What a simple yet grand summer event.

    Uncle Miles was a gracious host throughout his life. On subsequent trips to Canada we were pampered like royalty by Miles. It was great to be a guest of Miles. He was quick to welcome you into his home, put a cold drink in your hand and amuse you with an interesting story.

    Pat Deale
    Portland, Oregon

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  37. We were fortunate enough in the past few years to have sat at the Odyssey kitchen table and share a glass of wine and have one-on-one conversations with Miles. We have many fond memories but our favourites are:

    • Watching Miles share skiing techniques with our youngest daughter, Heather – she turned out to be an excellent competitive skier and Miles took great delight in hearing that. Not once did he forget to ask us how she was doing in the ensuing years, whenever we were in his company.

    • How Miles' eyes would sparkle and his smile broaden every time Elaine walked in the room.

    • When we returned from a trip to Italy, Miles would recall his own trip there – many years ago. We could hardly recall all the towns we visited but Miles knew all the streets in the town. His memory for detail was truly remarkable.

    A gentleman, a scholar and a true friend to those who knew him. His absence will be felt at the Odyssey Towers, but our hearts will remember him forever.

    Maggie Grant & Larry Stone
    Edmonton, AB

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  38. Miles had been seriously adamant about not wanting a public celebration for his 80th birthday. Instead he was happy to arrange a float down the Bow River with McCoy. But McCoy arranged for them to disembark at Cottonwood Golf Course for at least a more special birthday lunch while, behind the scenes, family and closest friends were invited to attend and greet the fly-fishers as they disembarked. That morning, however, a severe downpour played havoc with river conditions so Miles decided to cancel the float for that day.
    McCoy and Gord Kennedy (their fishing guide) were forced to confess. But when Miles heard about the surprise party, he flatly refused to go. Disaster! Finally, grumbling the whole way, he slowly made his way to Cottonwood. But when he saw all the children, grandchildren and friends gathered there, his enjoyment was palpable. What a testament to the pleasure his friends and family gave him!

    Ilona Braun
    Calgary, AB

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  39. Cigarettes scotch or coffee
    Exploring know-ledge wisdom or u
    Father, friend goodbye

    Jack

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  40. Elaine,

    Our thoughts are with you at this time. Reading some of his life story in his obituary, he was an amazing person whose passing will surely leave a hole in your life.

    Regards,
    Bob

    R.W.(Bob)Taylor
    Infinite Scope Management

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  41. Dear Elaine:

    I just heard of Miles' passing and want to say how sorry I am for your loss; sorry also that I am not there to help or even express our condolences in person (we're in France). I saw how you described your years together as the best of your life, and your references to the qualities with which Miles lived his life, not least among which are humour and a respect for the English language. Many would be delighted to be remembered in those terms, and I have no doubt that you knew your man in that way when you composed your brief, lovely tribute. We'll talk again in Ottawa. My sympathy, again.
    Lowell

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  42. Oh Elaine my sincere condolences. I am so very sad for your loss.

    Peggy Strankman

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  43. Elaine

    I heard the news from Larry Stone....I'm so, so sorry for your loss. There is never a right thing to say at a time like this but know that my thoughts are with you.

    I think of you often and miss our times together.

    Again, Terry and I are thinking of you and I'll see you Friday.

    Tim Schultz

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  44. Hello Elaine,

    We are so sorry to hear about Miles. If there is anything we can do to help you though this difficult time, please let us know.

    Jim & Cari Swiss

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  45. My Dearest Friend,

    I am so sorry, I did not know. Forgive me!

    Thank you for the obituary. You have my prayers and good wishes. I hope that we get a chance to talk when life has calmed and you have had enough time.

    Blessings for peace and happiness!

    Karim-Aly

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  46. My condolences Elaine. I will not be able to make it but my thoughts will be with you.

    K.J. (Ken) Chapman

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  47. Hi Elaine

    I do indeed have many fond memories of Miles from many years ago. I had the good fortune to be teaching at Sunshine when Miles spent all his weekends there teaching with us and as well

    I had the honour of being one of the examiners on the instructors course at Whistler where Miles not only was successful in his level 2 certification but rather he won the course on the strength of his incredible ability to teach well with humour and eloquent speech...what a pleasure that was.

    My sincerest condolences to you and to all his family at this time and I look forward to being there for the early part of the celebration on Friday.

    Sincerely

    Mike DesBrisay

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  48. Senator:

    I wish to express my deepest condolences on your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

    J.B. Allard

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  49. Dearest Elaine,

    Coco and I are most sorry to learn of the passing of Miles.

    He was a wonderful person.

    We will most certainly attend the gathering at the Country Club on Friday

    Warmest regards, Coco and Jamie Cran

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  50. So sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. My condolences to you and the family. Please stay well.

    Phil Fontaine

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  51. Dear Elaine,

    We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

    Allen Ponak

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  52. Hi Elaine,

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Thanks for letting me know.

    Jan Reimer

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  53. Elaine,

    I am very sorry to hear of your loss, I will be there on Friday.

    Lorraine Whale

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  54. Elaine:

    Marlys and I are away and did not get the news. Our sincere condolences on Miles' passing. We will not be back until March so will miss you on Friday however you are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Ted Carruthers

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  55. Dear Elaine:

    I just now saw the brief obituary in the Herald. Although Nina obviously had not met Miles, sincere condolences on our joint behalf for your loss. I hope you are well.

    Regards,

    Donald Chernichen

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  56. Elaine,

    I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you these past couple of days. I never met Miles, but Peggy Strankman tells me he was a delightful man.

    Sincerely,

    Karen Haugen-Kozyra

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  57. Hi Elaine,

    My condolences and thoughts are with you as you and your family deal with the passing of Miles. I read this blogspot and realized that Miles led a very full and interesting life. I'm sure I would have liked to go skiing with him or discussed the changes underway in Calgary and Western Canada.

    Regards,
    David Field

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  58. Elaine,

    I cannot think of the words to say that would properly express my sorrow for your loss and all of our losses on Miles passing.

    Both you and Miles have a very special place in my heart and I will always treasure the time that I spent with both of you. But for both of you I am not sure that I would have ever accomplished all that I have done professionally.

    You both took the time and found the patience to help me in my journey. You taught me not only the ins and outs of regulatory law but the meaning of colleagility, humor and taking the time to enjoy all that life has to offer.

    While I am saddened by the passing of what I consider one of the finest lawyers in my professional career I find greater sadness in the loss of Miles the person and all that he was and all that he brought out in everyone around him. That is the true loss that I want to express my sympathy for.

    Shane Freitag

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  59. Our regrets at Miles' passing Elaine. Through this I have enjoyed a few minutes getting to know a man of profound impact.

    Bill Overend

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  60. Dear Elaine!

    It is with sorrow that we learn of the passing of your dear husband and confidant, Miles. Reminiscences of his pleasant, engaging, sincere and caring personality are etched in the memories of his many friends and family members.

    Elaine, your continuous love and support for him was in evidence at all times and undoubtedly added greatly to his daily enjoyment.

    In is never easy to lose a loved one, but the departure of one's life partner is very challenging. Elaine, kindly accept our deepest condolences, as you push on, ever forward with your fantastic life.

    God Bless You and your family, and we look forward to seeing you very soon!

    Sincerely,
    Frank Hickey

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  61. Elaine, I am so sorry to hear about Miles. I know you had many happy years together. My thoughts are with you.

    Kim Sturgess

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  62. Elaine,

    Dawn and I are very sorry to hear this news. Neither of us are in town on Friday, but our thoughts will be with you.

    Our most sincere condolences,

    Dave Poulton

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  63. Elaine,

    I just want to offer my condolences.
    I hope you are doing alright.
    My thoughts are with you.

    Evan Bahry

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  64. Hello, Elaine,

    I am so, so sorry to hear about Miles and the great loss you have suffered.
    My mother died just after Christmas, and even though she was just shy of her 90th birthday, her death was a blow, and I can't imagine a world without her. I can only think that you will feel the same way. Please accept my
    heartfelt condolences.

    Regards,
    Christine E. Silverberg

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  65. Please accept my condolences for your loss - I know this has been tough on you and anything I can do - let me know.

    Randy Dawson

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  66. Elaine,

    I'm very sorry to hear that Miles passed away. My sincere condolences.

    Wayne Patton

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  67. Senator McCoy,

    How very sad I am to learn of Miles passing. He was a remarkable Canadian and will be missed by all. But he will be missed most by you Elaine and you have my sincere sympathy. I will be honoured to attend the "celebration of Miles' life" on Friday.

    My best personal regards

    Neil McCrank

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  68. Elaine,

    My deepest condolences in learning about the passing of your husband. I had never met him but reading about him on this blogspot made me wish I had. What an amazing couple the two of your would have made!

    My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
    Best wishes,

    Dr. David B. Layzell

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  69. Hi Elaine,

    Thank you for sending this. I didn't know that Miles had passed away so I do send my sincerest thoughts and condolences. The tribute to him is fanatastic: what a lifetime of leadership and contribution. It shows how much he lived "large"!!

    Sincerest thoughts,

    Jill Wyatt

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  70. Elaine,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Big hugs to you from both of us.
    Barb Sturdy

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  71. So sorry to hear about Miles, Elaine. He was a good man. I developed great respect for him from many appearances in hearings with him when he was TAU's counsel and before him when he was on the Board in the NWT. One of Dr. King's sayings was "One must not only preach a sermon with his voice; he must preach it with his life." Miles' sermon was on integrity and he preached it with his life.

    I regret I won't be able to attend the memorial physically -- I'm on Salt Spring Island for the next month. But, I will mark it here and hope that thoughts and prayers will somehow help to ease your burden. I've just returned from my father-in-law's funeral in Edmonton last week. He also was a man larger than life. Sharing stories of his life and how it has shaped ours helped create a feeling that he was in essence still with us. Maybe that's what "larger than life" means. I sincerely hope Miles' memorial helps you in the same way.

    Condolences, thoughts and prayers,
    Fred Martin

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  72. Elaine,
    My deepest condolences. I'm sorry I can't make it to Calgary on Friday but I will be thinking of you.

    Christopher Smillie

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  73. Elaine -- I am so sorry to hear your news, and so soon after your Christmas party.

    Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your husband.

    thinking of you,

    Paul Z.

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  74. Elaine,

    So sorry to hear the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. The loss of a loved one is never easy no matter how well prepared one might think they are.

    You have our support in this difficult time.

    Sincerely,

    Jim Carter and Lorraine Bray.

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  75. Elaine, I was so sorry to read about Miles. It had been about a year and a half since I last saw him , but I remember our visit well. We discussed fishing and skiing, and our discussions of teeth were definatly an afterthought. Miles always made me and those around me laugh and smile. He had a rich and full life for many years, and had many friends who loved him and respected him. I will miss him.

    I am sorry to say that Marina and I will be skiing in Whistler on Friday, but I will be sure to make a run for Miles, and tell everyone out loud that that is what we are doing, so we can all be reminded of his fabulous spirit.

    I am sending my love to you and we will be thinking of you as well. Remember Miles often, he was a great guy. Please send my condolences to Pam, she was a friend of mine in high school.

    I do hope you are well.
    Shep Secter

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  76. Elaine, on the road south.

    I did not know Miles well but his smile was so engaging-that will be the memory I keep.

    Take care of yourself, for now
    Nancy

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  77. Dear Elaine,
    It pierced my heart to hear of Miles' passing.
    Please know that you are in my heart.
    I will be thinking of you all as you celebrate your incredible husband and love of your life.

    Love and blessings
    Phyllis Woolley

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  78. Elaine

    I send my most sincere condolences on the loss of your husband. I cannot imagine how difficult this time must be and I can only hope that the passage of time heals your heart.

    Regards
    Adam Legge

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  79. Elaine,

    Thank you for forwarding this email - I had not heard the sad news.

    I am sorry to hear of your loss. I plan to see you on Friday - take care,


    Jim Dewald

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  80. Dear Elaine,

    Please accept my sincere condolences. I really appreciate your message to let me know of Miles passing and the plans to celebrate his life on Friday afternoon. I regret that I will be late in arriving due to my teaching committments but I will be there.

    sincerely,
    Mary-Ellen

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  81. Oh Elaine

    I didn't know. I am so sad at this news. Just know that my heart goes out to you.

    Much love.
    Senator Nancy Ruth

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  82. Hello Pip; It's been a very long time since our ski trips with you're Dad in the old station wagon.. He was very generous and kind, very sorry to here of his passing, stay well my old friend..

    Trevor Conduit.. Calgary, Ab

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  83. Sorry for your troubles Elaine

    I won't be in town Friday but will be thinking of you

    Best regards

    Jack Crooks

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  84. Elaine,

    Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of Miles. I am thinking of you and hoping that you are doing as well as one could in this difficult time.

    As ever,
    Tim Christian

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  85. Dear Elaine :

    Neville and I were very sorry to receive the notice of your dear husband, Miles, passing, whom unfortunately we never had the opportunity to meet. We wish you and your family well.

    With deepest sympathy,

    Vivienne Poy

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  86. Miles Patterson was my most senior advisor, mentor and friend when I started in the private practice of law in Alberta in the early 1980’s. By great good fortune I ended up in Calgary working with Miles Patterson and Elaine McCoy. They were the ‘big brains’ of regulatory law in my estimation and I was one lucky girl from a small town in Kansas, to be linked up with them in an everyday working environment at McCarthy’s (then Black & Company) and TransAlta Utilities. I credit their unfailing friendship and loyalty over many, many years to supporting and enabling my career path. To say nothing of the excellent lunches we had over the years at Le Chat! (now Vicious Circle) We used to order a variant of eggs benedict at Le Chat – which we called “cat eggs” – we would say “time for lunch, how about some cat eggs?”

    Miles was an exceptional man of great heart and mind and I will miss him deeply. Carolyn Dahl Rees
    Calgary, Alberta

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  87. Oh, Elaine, I'm so sorry to hear of Miles' passing. I am sending my warmest thoughts to all of you.

    Best regards,
    Adam Gagnon

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  88. Hi Elaine

    I'm so sorry to hear this news - my sincerest condolences for your lost.
    While I can't attend the celebration of Miles' life, our thoughts will be with you and the family.

    Ian and Sherri Potter

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  89. Dear Elaine,

    Ilona told me of the passing of your husband after a long illness and wanted to drop you a note to let you know my thoughts will be with you tomorrow as your celebrate Miles’ life and share some wonderful memories.

    I wish you well in these difficult times, but knowing that Miles is now at peace I am sure will be a real comfort to you.

    Kind regards,
    Myra Lever

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  90. Hi Elaine
    I'm so sorry to hear of Miles' passing. Deepest condolences from both John and me. Thank you for letting us know. We will be there for you on Friday afternoon.

    Letha J. MacLachlan

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  91. Dear Elaine

    Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. I wish you strength and peace of mind to deal with this sad change in your life.

    Regards

    Gail V. Barrington

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  92. Hello Elaine,
    Deepest condolences from Maddie and me. I look forward to joining you tomorrow in celebration of Miles and a wonderful contribution that he, and you, have made to the Alberta community.

    Best personal regards,
    Hal Walker

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  93. I remember Miles from way, way back – the tall good looking guy who called me “the young kid on the block”. We weren’t that far apart in age – but we were neighbours.

    I saw Miles and Elaine in December at their annual event and my moniker remained the same as always with Miles – “the young kid on the block”.

    Great memories!
    Betty Flock
    Calgary, AB

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  94. My happiest memory: When mom and dad first moved us here from Toronto in 1991, like any typical teenager, I couldn’t believe they made me leave all my friends. Even though I started in a new school almost right away I had a hard time making friends. Grandpa had heard that and started to come by some Saturday mornings to see if I wanted to go to Sandpiper books with him.

    We would spend hours there, just pulling out books, reading some, showing each other some of them, then pick the one that would come home with us. Those were some of the best mornings I ever had. Sometimes we barely even talked – just shared our love for books.
    _
    Grandpa’s happiest memory of me: Now I know these are supposed to be memories that we have of grandpa, but this, he always said, is one of the happiest memories he had of me. I hadn’t met grandpa when I was first born for quite some time. Dad was working his way through law school and we didn’t have a lot of opportunities to fly home to Calgary. I’m told that we decided to make the trip when I was about 4.
    Grandpa was staying at the condo up in Banff so my parents drove out there to visit him with me. He said that he saw that we had pulled up and went and opened the front door. All he could hear as I came pounding up the stairs was one tiny loud voice yelling “grandpa”. He tells me that although we hadn’t “met”, I flew around the corner and leapt into his arms – it was truly a case of love at first sight!

    Amanda Patterson
    Calgary, AB

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  95. I had the pleasure of coming to know Miles later in his life. I will never forget some of the kitchen table discussions we enjoyed. Miles always ensured that the two requisites to a good conversation were available, cigarettes and whiskey. Once we had these, Miles proved to be among the most genial and intelligent conversationalists I've met. His intellectual curiosity, understanding of the law and the energy industry were apparent in each conversation.

    I once had the pleasure of sitting with Miles one evening discussing Norway, a country I knew a little about but that he knew intimately. Once on the topic of Oslo, Norwegian cuisine or the layout of the capital, Miles' intellectual energy seemed boundless.
    _
    Miles was a true Albertan having been born in the province and lived there when it was not as fashionable to do so as it is now. It was apparent that he loved his country, province and the recreational opportunities presented by the mountains and streams in the area. Miles was a generous conversationalist, tolerant of questions from those who knew less about a subject than he did, and very inclusive.

    Once Miles came to trust you, the privilege of sitting at the table with him was a fine gift indeed. We'll miss you.

    Trevor Lynn
    Ottawa Ontario

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  96. Elaine,
    I am so sorry to hear that Mike has passed away. I can only imagine how difficult a time this is for you. My heart and prayers are with you.

    All my best.
    Heather Larke

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  97. Dear Elaine,

    Thank you for letting me know about the passing of your husband Miles. It is good to know that he was able to die at home in peaceful surroundings. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers throughout this time of transition. I enjoyed meeting Miles and I wish you well in your life changes that will follow his passing.

    Please let me know if there is anything I can do to support you. I enjoy my memories of our adventures and hold you fondly in my heart.

    Warm wishes,
    Gaye Hanson

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  98. Elaine, Jack, Pip, Pam & Neil:

    I am very saddened to learn of Miles' passing and very, very grateful that I was able to spend quality time with Miles at Xmas. I will never forget everything he and you taught me in our regulatory days. Elaine, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

    Although I have many, many wonderful memories of Miles, the one that I remember the most is when he nicknamed me "JNF". We were attending a regulatory hearing in Edmonton and Miles was sitting behind me in our make-shift hotel office dictating his final argument as I typed. JNF (Jeannette Nimble Fingers) stuck with him and me right up to the end.

    When I attended the Patterson/McCoy Xmas party this year, Miles and I had the opportunity to spend one and a half hours together laughing and chatting and he referred to me on several occasions as JNF. I will always treasure this nickname!!!! I will also treasure the monthly outings Miles and I had at Schooners for halibut and fries. Elaine: Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Miles and thank you so much for always treating me like your family.

    Jeannette (JNF) Young
    Calgary, AB

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  99. Miles was a great man whom I liked and respected very much. I remember Miles fondly from our days at Sunshine and Banff. Miles was a kind, generous and caring individual. Miles used to like to teach skiing on Saturdays, then party, a little bit, on Saturday nights. On Sunday, you could always find Miles on the couch in the staff lodge, taking a nap.

    Miles loved skiing and teaching at Sunshine. He was a great instructor and had a wonderful way with his pupils. Miles, my friend, you will be sorely missed. Make a few turns for me, and the whole Sunshine gang, where the snow is always soft and the sun always shines.

    Kim Rawley
    Calgary, AB

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  100. Miles always welcomed us to his home and I remember some happy get-togethers around Christmas time. On one occasion as we all sat around the table after enjoying a great turkey dinner, Miles came up with the idea for each one of us to tell of our most memorable Christmas. After a few responses I asked him to answer the same question and he told us the story of one Christmas during World War II when he was on active service in Italy.

    He and two of his buddies were befriended by a farmer and his family who shared their small home and what little they had, but who certainly had nothing extra for Christmas. With real ingenuity, Miles spent hours creating a fine Christmas tree with lights and decorations, and even treats for the family. I particularly remember they made silver star decorations from tin cans that they hammered flat, then cut out the star shapes. The whole effort was a gift of love in the midst of war.
    _

    One day upon my request Miles took me on a guided tour of his many wonderful works of art adorning the walls of his home. I greatly appreciated hearing something of significance of each one, and how he had come to possess them.

    I shall also never forget how, before each guest left, Miles always had a few special thoughtful words of friendship and encouragement and wisdom to say to them in parting. We may not always have fully understood him, but we did admire and respect Miles' many good qualities.

    Peace and love from Mother.

    Jean McCoy
    Edmonton, AB

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  101. When I think of Miles I cannot help but smile at the memory of the ever present sparkle in his eye and his generous humour – and his storytelling, of course! The art of long conversation at that glass table punctuated by fine food and drink are something I will always remember.

    My thoughts and blessings,

    Andrea McCoy
    Guelph, ON

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  102. Elaine

    I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I thoroughly enjoyed my (too few) conversations with Miles, so have an inkling of how much he will be missed.
    Thinking of you and wishing you peace.

    Raymond Stemp

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  103. Hello Elaine,

    I was very saddened to receive your email. Thank you for letting me know.

    Pat and I send our condolences to you and the family and wish you well during this difficult period. You must have many fond memories and we hope they, together with the support of family and friends, will sustain you.

    Kind regards,
    Pat and Mike Murtha

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  104. Dear Elaine,

    I was saddened to hear about Miles' passing. Although I didn't know him well, I always think of him with fondness. May you take comfort in and cherish the beautiful memories you created together.

    Heartfelt condolensces.
    Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

    Neris and Jon
    Havelock
    Neris

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  105. Elaine, I am so sorry about your loss. Now I understand your fishing passion and know you have great memories.
    Warmest thoughts,
    Lynn Sveinson

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  106. My condolences to Elaine, Jack, Neil, and family.

    I had the privilege of being an articling student to Miles for my articling year (Aug 1978 to Aug 1979). Miles was at that time, past Chairman of the Public Utilities board and one of most eminent lawyers in the Alberta Bar. As an articling student, everything was new and confusing. I expected Miles would be frustrated with all of my many questions on issues that would arise daily, but if he was, he never showed it. He patiently spent whatever time was needed to answer, explain and guide me on my new legal career, notwithstanding his very busy legal practice. He was highly principled lawyer and person, and was ethical and respectful in dealings with other lawyers on files and practised what he preached. Due to Mile’s specialized practice, I had the opportunity to work on great legal files, including Alberta Gas Trunk Line (Nova Corporation) and started on the Transalta and Canadian Utilities file mentioned by others in this blog.

    It has now been more than 31 years since I finished articling and Miles applied to have me admitted to the Alberta Bar. As I gained more experience and understood what makes a lawyer a “good” lawyer, I finally appreciated what a great and brilliant lawyer Miles really was. I found myself regularly asking “What would Miles Patterson do?, which represented the standard by which I governed my conduct in the profession towards clients, other lawyers and the courts. Working with Miles in my most formative year as a lawyer, very much moulded me to become the lawyer I am today. One of my only regrets was that Miles and I separated after my articling year and that I did not have the opportunity to continue working with him. I was however humbled and honoured when Miles contacted me many years later, in his retirement, to assist him with some minor legal matters. I am saddened by his passing.

    I am sorry that I didn’t have the chance to attend your recent Christmas party and missed seeing Elaine, Miles and family. My sincere sympathies to the entire family in this difficult time.

    Jarold Switzer
    Calgary, Alberta

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  107. Thanks to your excellent blog I now remember I first met Miles in the spring of 1973 when, as a first year articling student, I was assigned to do his tax return. We just seemed to "click" immediately and he became a best friend and mentor. I always looked forward with great anticipation to our lunches as you never knew where the conversation would go.
    I miss him already...
    Bill Maier

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  108. Elaine and the Patterson Family:

    I first met Miles when he was Chairman of the Public Utilities Board in the Board offices in Edmonton. Little did I know that Miles would become my mentor, advisor and protector at TransAlta (then CalgaryPower). Miles was generous, kind,thoughtful, repectful of all and a man of high integrity. A person with a very creative and inquisitive mind. We will miss this great man.

    I am greatful to have spent a few minutes with Miles this past December, remembering our times together at TransAlta.

    Our sympathies to Elaine and The Patterson Family.

    Dick McKinnon

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  109. Truly I couldn't decide on which memory was my favorite. However, I'll always treasure listening to his stories and what he had to say. Now, for some people, he talked slowly and the stories dragged on ... but I knew that in the end it was worth taking the time to listen. He always ended on a funny note or had something witty and smart to say. I loved that about him. You never knew what to expect.

    And another favourite memory is more a good mom moment. I'll never forget how she always insisted on saving old bananas and stale bread for Grandpa … because he loved her bread pudding! Our freezer was crammed with the stuff. For him.

    Love you!
    Lauren Patterson
    Calgary, AB

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  110. Miles was my neighbour on east Elbow Park for several years in the late 1970s and early 1980s. As a single female with a young daughter, I appreciated the various times he helped with difficult problems like cars and lawn mowers that wouldn't start. Very neighbourly and more practical than the proverbial cups of sugar!

    Miles (and his wife Joy) owned a big Afghan hound at the time. I always thought it amusing to watch tall, lanky Miles out walking the lovely long, lanky dog. They looked like two quite thin, gentle giants. Miles was also a client for a number of years and I enjoyed our conversations regarding business investment ideas and his various law cases. I learned a lot from him. He was a highly intelligent, enjoyable person to deal with. I treasured all my various encounters with him and also with both Miles and Elaine in more recent years. He will be greatly missed.

    Joanne McLaws
    Calgary, AB

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  111. I was 15 years old and determined to attend the annual Parker’s Ridge ski party, I mean ski race. My parents were equally determined that I would NOT attend said party. So, I snuck out of our house around 5 in the morning and proceeded to Glenmore Trail whereupon I started hitchhiking, with my pack and ski equipment in tow.
    Things were going a bit slowly until a familiar station wagon pulled over … with Miles at the wheel. He was also heading for Parker's. He asked if my parents were aware that I was going and I told him no. He gave a bit of a nod and seemed to contemplate, as he was so good at, what he should do. He allowed that he couldn’t leave me there hitchhiking so I might as well get in.
    We never discussed it much, but I very much expect that Miles phoned them from a gas stop …. at a distance where it was much easier for me to go on to Parker’s Ridge than it was to return home. I didn’t do very well in the race … but the weather was great, the party was nonstop and Miles completed the round trip by taking me back home, safe and sound, on Monday.

    Doran Flock
    Calgary, AB

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  112. Originally From: January 20, 2011

    Hello Elaine,

    So sorry to hear your sad news. Thank you so much for the obituary - the photograph is lovely.

    Our thoughts are with you. Hopefully, we'll catch up with you, perhaps in Edmonton, in the spring or later in the year.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Bob and Roberta Giffen

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  113. My condolences, Elaine.

    We are in Mexico (San Miguel de Allende) for 2 months so will not be in Calgary this month.

    All the best to you.

    Allan Amey

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  114. Hi Elaine,

    I was saddened to see Miles' obituary in the Calgary Herald this week. I will always remember the time he spent as counsel for TransAlta during our regulatory hearings. He was a tremendous coach and mentor and very meticulous in the way he prepared us for the proceedings. I still remember the lessons he would give us on the use of the English language.

    Thank you for sending me the link to the more detailed summary of Miles'
    life. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you mourn his passing and celebrate his amazing life and the memories you created together..

    Regards,
    Wolfgang Janke

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  115. Dear Elaine,

    Thank you for letting me know about Miles' passing.

    I did not know Miles well but I first met him in about 1980 when I first moved to Calgary and I was trying to get my head around public utility regulation. Miles took pity on me and was a great source of knowledge and wisdom on the subject. A fine man and a fine obituary. In reading it I can only conclude that you will have lots of wonderful memories to comfort you over the coming weeks and months.

    Nigel Bankes

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  116. Hi Elaine,

    Thanks for the note. I am sorry for your loss. I am overseas on a motorcycle trip so I won't be able to make it, but will be thinking of you. Hope you will be okay.

    Best Regards,
    Kevin Hope

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  117. Dear Elaine,

    I send much sympathy and love.
    Miles must have been a wonderful man and you will miss him. It doesn't matter how prepared we think we are so a loved one's death, we never really are.
    I still find myself thinking that I have to tell this to Archie and then I remember I cannot. But I am certain that he knows and gets messages.
    Anyhow I am thinking of you. Remember all the good years and the fun that you had. Wish I could join you today but it is not to be.

    Hugs,
    Liz Parr-Johnston

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  118. Dear Elaine, Pip, Jack, Neil and Pam

    Please accept our heart felt condolences on Uncle Miles passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Peace.
    Harry,Jan,Robert,Sam and Pamela Higgins
    Calgary, Alberta

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  119. Jack and Neil

    We are so very sorry and sad to hear about the passing of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    The Baine family (Wally, Rick, Doug, Jay, and Andrea).

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  120. Patricia Mayo Vicioso wrote:

    I remember Miles for his graciousness, his wisdom, his insight, and his
    loving nature. I have been enlightened by his intuitive leaps and
    entertained by his humour, sometimes dry and subtle, sometimes mischievous.

    In the early nineties, Elaine and Miles visited me in Manhattan before
    embarking on a flyfishing adventure. Perhaps it was the compelling view of
    the Central Park Pond from their suite at the Plaza, perhaps sheer
    exuberance and enthusiasm for the sport.
    Miles and Elaine were soon at the Pond, in full gear. I cannot say who cast
    the first (hookless) fly line, but before long, the Calgary pair attracted
    the attention of a family of ducks, scores of tourists and a quite a few
    dogs who wanted to join in the fun.

    Though I keenly feel the loss of his physical presence, Miles is a powerful
    force of nature and as such will be with us always.

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  121. Elaine, I will be thinking of you today.

    Trevor Lynn

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  122. On behalf of the Members of the Legislative Assembly of Alberta, I extend our deepest sympathy to our friend and former colleague, in the loss of her dear husband Miles Patterson. Please know that our prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

    Honourable Ken Kowalski
    Speaker, Legislative Assembly of Alberta

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  123. Dear Elaine
    I am sorry that I cannot attend the memorial service due to a previously scheduled seminar from which I cannot escape. I hope that we can still have lunch sometime in early to mid February.

    Take care Chan Wirasinghe

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  124. Elaine,
    I just heard from your office of the passing of your husband. I am sorry to hear the news and wish to extend my condolences to you and your family.

    With best wishes for the future,

    George Greene

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  125. Thank you for informing me of Miles' death. Rosemary and I will be attending the reception. We had a most enjoyable visit with him at your Christmas party.

    With affection,
    Cheryl Ramsay on behalf of:
    Miles Atkinson

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  126. Dear Elaine,

    I know today will be one of the most difficult but please know that I am
    thinking of you and sending love & hugs to give you strength.

    Wish I could be there to give the hugs in person.


    Neris Havelock

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  127. Miles Patterson had a full and adventursome life and made a great contribution towards making the world a better place in a host of ways. Our sincerest condolences are extended to all of the members of his family.

    Darryl and Pat Raymaker,
    Calgary, Alberta

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  128. Friends come into our lives for a reason, season or lifetime. I was blessed to know Miles for a season, towards the latter period of his life. I enjoyed many lovely dinners with him, as he regaled us with his memories of his time in WWII and in Norway. I remember my dear, late father and Miles discussing their respective memories of Britain, as well as all manner of other fascinating topics. My last memory of Miles is a wonderful one - this past Christmas Day spending time with him and Elaine and a lovely cornish rock hen dinner! My mother's and my own prayers are with you and Miles' family at this time, Elaine. Miles was an exceptional man.

    Abrazos,
    Lee Tunstall

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  129. Elaine

    We are on Arizona and have just heard of Miles's death. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I will call soon.

    Jock Osler

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  130. Elaine,

    Lee just wrote me with the sad news about Miles.

    We are so sorry to hear it.

    We just wanted to send you lots of love, courage and strength.

    Do let me know if there's anything at all that we can do.

    Lots of love,

    kt+mebs
    xxxxx

    (Kathleen O'Grady)

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  131. Elaine, we are very sorry for your loss and our thoughts are with you.
    Please let us know when arrangements have been made.

    Paul and Jan Griss

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  132. Oh Elaine. I am so sorry for this news. You have been strong and brave
    over the past couple of years. Some comfort must have been with him by
    being with you and in a peaceful state.

    I hope that friday's memorial brings wonderful friends and family to
    celebrate his life and your life together and the wonderful memories and
    travel, happiness and adventure.

    Give time for tears.

    Anouk

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  133. Hi Elaine, Very sorry to hear… I am sure this a difficult time; condolences, most certainly, and have a hug.

    Best regards and warmth, Rob Lothian

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  134. Hello Elaine,

    I was very sorry to hear about Miles' passing.

    During 1987 and 1988 I had the privilege of getting to know Miles well as we worked together for TransAlta in several of its cases before the Alberta PUB. At Miles' and Bob Black's request, I had come in from the Toronto office of McCarthy Tetrault (then still McCarthy & McCarthy and Black & Co.), to replace Miles as counsel before the PUB, because of other priorities Miles had to deal with at the time.

    Miles not only ensured a successful handover of the cases to me, he acted as a mentor to me and provided invaluable strategic and advocacy advice on an ongoing basis. Working with him, Harry Schaeffer, Jim Leslie and others on the TransAlta team was not only a great cooperative venture - it was fun. He was one of the best advocates I have ever had the privilege to work with - and his sense of humour and intelligence made the tasks a pleasure. I learned a great deal from him, not only about energy regulation and advocacy while in the office, but also about living a full life, as we drove around occasionally in his Jag and talked about the outdoors and other priorities.

    It was a genuine privilege to have spent a little time with Miles during his long sojourn on earth - one that I'm sure was not long enough for you.

    My sincere condolences and best regards,

    Hank Intven
    Toronto ON

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  135. Elaine, I heard over the weekend of Miles’ passing. I’m sorry for you.

    Thom Stubbs

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  136. Hi Elaine,

    At the Celebration of Miles' life, the use of the word "method" rather than "methodology" was mentioned. Miles view on that matter has forever been burned into my mind and a few lawyers have heard Miles speech through me!

    My favorite memory of Miles, and also one of my most embarrassing moments, occurred when being woodshedded in my first experience as a witness. It was in the late 70s, I was working for TransAlta and was testifying on Depreciation. I had worked for about two years in the area, gone to courses on Depreciation and knew many aspects of Depreciation practices in TransAlta and other utilities. I think Miles sensed I was strong in the detail, but weaker in the bigger picture.

    The first question Miles asked was what was my definition of depreciation? I didn't have a definition memorized and verbally stumbled around for some time. It was extremely embarrassing and dealt my ego a good blow. My respect for Miles and the whole woodshedding process went way up. Over the years, I had the privilege of watching Miles in action in a hearing and admired his skill and courage.

    May you be comforted in your loss and Ev and my prayers are with you.

    Dan Levson

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  137. Dear Elaine,

    How thoughtful of you to send us an e-mail with regard to Miles passing.

    We saw it in the newspaper. However, Hy has been terribly ill and in hospital but he is now home and recuperating very well. Thank God.
    Miles was always a gentleman and I am sure your life in Calgary will be quite empty without him. You however have a lot of important work to do and that will help you through these difficult times.

    Just know that Miles will always be remembered very fondly by both of us.

    You know of course Elaine that we always think of you in the most glowing terms. Let us know when you are in town again. Perhaps you might have time to come and visit and have a drink. Most fondly.

    Jenny Belzberg

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  138. Dear Elaine:
    I hope you are as well as can be expected in the circumstances. I wasn't available to attend yesterday. (Friday) Presumably there were a lot of people. I think Tom Duckworth who passed away several years ago knew Miles. In any event can you give your phone no. As I was hoping to call you next week.

    Regards
    Donald Chernichen

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  139. Elaine. I am Just thinking of you and how these days are.

    the Remembrance was so well written that I too would miss the love and laughter of Miles.
    Sending you love.

    Senator Nancy Ruth

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  140. I am so very sorry for your loss!

    Kelley Charlebois

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  141. Hi Elaine
    My very sincere condolences to you and family. I can never come up with appropriate words, but reading his life story makes me wish I could have known him. It also makes me think that a life well lived makes the final chapter easier to bear. The invitation is always open for you to come and visit our little farm here in Sundre anytime it fits your schedule.
    Take care.

    Bruce B. Beattie

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  142. Dear Elaine
    It saddened me profoundly to hear of the loss of your long-time husband, friend and partner.
    At the celebration event on Friday I could sense your deep grief and admired the great dignity and grace with which you carried yourself through such a difficult time.
    With the large number of people who showed up to share, I felt that one more person to pass through the receiving line would not have lightened your burden at the time.
    I am dropping you this brief note to tell you that my thoughts are with you. Should it occur to you at any time that I might be able to support you in any way, please just ask.
    With deep respect and very warmest regards


    Richard Adamson

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  143. Hi Elaine:

    I'm so sorry to hear this. I just got back from a trip to Tulsa and checked my e-mail now.
    My thoughts are with you.

    Ken Ogilvie

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  144. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband recently. I know this must be a very difficult time for you. I am sorry for your loss.

    Elizabeth Huculak

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  145. Dear Elaine,

    I was so sad to receive your news. After a long life together, the parting must be difficult. I don't know whether Miles' death was sudden or expected.. but I'm sure the sadness is no different. We are still in Arizona, and start the drive home on Monday.. so we should be back at the end of next week.. (28th or 29th). I'll be in touch shortly thereafter.

    All good wishes,

    June Kilcolm and Ted

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  146. Dear Elaine:
    I am so very sorry to learn about the recent passing of your beloved husband, Miles. I know what it feels losing a lifetime partner. Amal and I were hoping to have lunch with you when I return from my healing journey to India from Jan 27 to March 15 2011. I will get in touch when I return and we would love to spend time with you.
    Please take good care of yourself and God Bless.

    Vilma Dawson

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  147. Dear Elaine,

    I am sorry to hear of the passing of your husband Miles. I didn’t get an opportunity to meet him when we were at your home during the oil sands tour week in August. I understand he was too ill to join us.

    His bio indicates he led a fulsome life with much adventure and achievement. This will leave you with many good memories of a life shared.

    Camille and I offer our sympathy.

    Art Eggleton

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  148. From January 20th, 2011

    Hi Elaine -- we have been travelling out of the country, and I did know of Miles' death -- nor, as I read your blog, of the full and stimulating nature of his life. It is an extraordinary story -- right at the heart of developments which the province, country, world, and I knew only random elements of it. Maureen joins in sending our condolences. We look forward to seeing you when we are all back in Ottawa.

    Hon. Joe Clark

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  149. Dear Senator Elaine,

    Miles captivated me when I met him at your Swearing-In ceremony. His love and pride was evident as he pointed out family members to me and his face shone when he spoke of you.

    As recent as last December I was once again captivated, by you, as you told the story of his marriage proposal. A magical spark of romance shone in your eyes.

    I hope you will always find comfort in the wonderful memories, multitude of friends and the love that will never die.

    Jan xo

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  150. Forever curious, Miles relished morsels of information, occasions to learn and opportunities to disseminate information. Sharing knowledge and stories as joyful riddles, Miles thrived when one challenged themselves and him to learn joyfully and wholly. My best memories of Miles, are sitting with him at the kitchen table, talking, listening to stories about his past and learning. On one particular occasion, we discussed the ingredients commonly used in Inuit tea. This sent us on a Wikipedia search where we learned about endive (or chicory root) found in North America. Just the other day, I came across that very print out, and could not help but smile over his curiosity, and adaptability. Not every man his age favours the internet, let alone crowd sourced knowledge. Yet there we would go, on the net, to Wikipedia, to get what we needed.
    How inspiring, how intriguing, how lovely.

    Lovingly submitted by a big fan of MHP
    Gwen Crowdis

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  151. Elaine,

    My thoughts are with you during this time of sorrow, upon the passing of your husband Miles.

    Sincerely,

    Kyle Fawcett

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  152. I want to pass on to you my sincere regret on the passing of your husband. Having read the story of his life I can see why you chose him to be your partner !!!
    We are all thinking of you during this difficult time.
    With regret,

    Dan Lang
    Senator-Yukon

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  153. Elaine I just heard of the passing of your husband. I'm so sorry to hear that. It will difficult for you in the coming months and years. Just know that Montana and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Take care Elaine

    Senator Richard Neufeld

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  154. I just received the notice from the Clerk concerning your husband death. My wife Camille and I wish to offer you our deepest condolences and I hope to see you soon in Ottawa.

    Pierre Claude NOLIN
    Senator

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  155. I am so sorry to hear that Miles passed away. I have been out of the country and just heard the news.
    It was lovely to see you both at your Christmas reception.
    He will be mised Elaine. You have my deepest sympathy.

    Warm Regards
    Linda Hohol

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  156. I recently heard the news, my deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.

    Senator Doug Finley

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  157. From January 21, 2011

    Miles' and my paths did not cross because of his profession as a great legal mind, but because of his passion for fly fishing. I own and operate a fly fishing store and I am also a fly fishing guide. Miles was first a customer and then a friend. We fished together for over 20 years. Every year on his birthday, he would host his family and friends on a float down the Bow River. Initially Miles was a little stubborn, and taking tips and advice from me was not to be, but eventually he accepted that I really did know what I was doing and, according to McCoy, I was probably the only person that Miles would listen to. He loved to catch fish and coach McCoy – he would practically recite word for word the instructions I gave him, in his coaching of McCoy. It was fun to watch.

    I don't remember if it was his 75th or 80th birthday, but McCoy had planned a special surprise celebration for him that was to occur on the banks of the Bow River at the Cottonwood golf club. Friends and family were to meet around lunch time at Cottonwood, and receive the birthday boy as we stopped there for our usual shore lunch. My plan was to launch the boat at Policeman's Flat, and fish the day to Mckinnon's. The stop at Cottonwood for lunch was not out of the ordinary, so Miles had no idea what was in store for him.

    Mother Nature had a different agenda. It rained real hard the day before, and the river was like chocolate milk – totally unfishable – so I called Miles, talked about the conditions, and because the river was dirty, we couldn't fish. Miles was disappointed as expected, but the party was still a go. I went up to the residence, and had to tell Miles about the party. He was none too pleased and was adamant he was not going. I offered him a choice, he could walk on his own to my truck, or I would carry him to my truck and the party. He decided that he would come with me, but I received the complete silent treatment as we drove down to Cottonwood. As we pulled into the party, and he saw his friends and family, his smile widened and his eyes were sparkling, and they stayed that way all day. He never did thank me for taking him, but it was not necessary, seeing him surrounded by family made me smile, the old curmudgeon with a heart of gold.

    Miles had a favorite spot on the Bow that he named "Miles Corner". He caught fish here every time we floated through. After passing through his favorite spot we would have our lunch, and he would declare a little "Vatican Time"........his term for a nap. How fitting.

    This summer when I float through "Miles Corner", I will have a smile on my face. Be assured, I will stop and hopefully catch one for my little buddy, and further be assured I will also partake in a little Vatican time ..........just like Miles taught me.

    For Miles:

    I am a fisherman for life;
    I will always be a fisherman.
    It is not something I do,
    It is who I am.

    Fishing is not an escape,
    It is where I belong,
    Where I am supposed to be.

    It is not a place,
    But a life long journey.
    It is a passage my father showed
    me,and one that I will show others.

    When you understand all of this,
    you will know me.
    And we will fish together.


    Gord Kennedy

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  158. Dear Elaine,
    I'm very sorry to hear of Miles passing. I'm sure you have lots of support from friends and family, but it has to be hard on you.
    Sorry I couldn't make it to the celebration of his life on the 21st.
    I'm now very part time at CAPP, working from Edmonton and haven't been able to get to Calgary since before Christmas.
    I hope the Senate is keeping you busy and giving you opportunities to contribute to the better governance of this country.

    Warm regards
    Rick Hyndman

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  159. Elaine,
    I just heard your husband passed away, so I wanted to extend my sympathy and let you know you are in my thoughts.
    Sincerely,
    Catherine Callbeck

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  160. January 26, 2011
    Dear Elaine, I am so sorry for your loss. I think of you often and fondly and you are in my heart.

    Deb Witwicki,
    Edmonton, Alberta

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  161. On behalf of Ross Glen:
    Hi Elaine, I was saddened to hear of the loss of Miles and wish I could have attended the celebration of his life. Unfortunately, due to a prior commitment, I was unable to be there.
    I trust that the memories you created together will sustain you through this difficult time.
    Please call me when you are in Calgary so that we can catch up.
    Regards,

    ROSS
    JUNE KURZ

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  162. Dear Elaine,

    My thoughts and prayers go out to you and the entire family. Miles was a wonderful man and although I did not get to see him very often I thought of him as a very special person. I fondly remember that he was a superb conversationalist and a very nice man. I hope that you can take comfort in the great memories that you have of your life with Miles. I know that my father and brothers always enjoyed Miles and everyone will miss him.

    Fondly,
    Cynthia Deale

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  163. Elaine:
    I think of you every time the TV news reminds me it’s international Women’s’ Day- back to the days of Alberta Labour and your commitment to the Women’s Secretariat, of course – and more personally, your birthday.
    It’s not the only time I think of you, of course; that happens more frequently than you know.
    I remember years ago, being in the Press Gallery above the Speaker’s Chair when the Premier told the House you had been married. I knew your face and I knew your name, but I had no idea then, that years later I’d get to know you and Miles personally – and eat with you two, stay with you in your home and even travel with you both. I’ve thought so many times about fly fishing with you guys in the Crowsnest that weekend, with Fay and our borrowed rods and waders in tow. I remember the guy you two hired to stand in the park and teach us casting rhythm, and later the fellow in that upstairs office, tying ties with bits of dear fur and who knows what else ;-) ... I got so much mileage recounting that trip – most particularly the story of standing waist-deep in the rushing water, and watching Miles flushing down the river like a fishing bobber, almost helplessly calling “My hat! My hat!” (his disappearing prize, loaded up with valued flies and experiences.) I’m not certain, but I think he caught it!
    That weekend with you and Miles I learned “Wooly Bugger” and how to tie some simple knots, the names of which I’ll never remember – and I remember his frustrated patience, first correcting my knotting clumsiness, then praising my eventual success. We caught nothing on that trip, except a trout in the owners’ own reservoir. And sadly, it was ‘catch-and-release’ disallowing any evidence of (limited) success.

    cont...

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  164. A non-fish highlight was the card-games and scotch that followed fishing after the sky got dark. (God, if I could only fit into those neoprene waders again ;-) )
    I also remember the weekend of the gay rodeo when my friends Val and Pat joined Fay and me as your guests. The accordion (or maybe it was harmonica) festival had filled virtually every Calgary hotel room and Pat and Val, without a place to land, were welcomed into your home in what they called “the Princess” room, with its mounds of frilly pillows. I slept in your entrance. To this day, they remember and fondly recollect.
    I can’t imagine how many other of your friends descended unexpectedly on Miles over the years – but I can imagine that he was as open and welcoming to every one of them as he was to us that weekend.
    I have an idea of how much you shook-up his life with drop-ins and stay-overs through the years – and I suspect he was way ahead of his time in terms of tolerance and acceptance and flexibility and adaptation.
    I know I wasn’t there that often – but I vividly remember helping him to build an ash-mound of cigarette butts at your kitchen table while listening to Miles’ firm and rehearsed views and perspectives. Naive and uninformed though I was, he was never dismissive or condescending – always listening and pondering and even patiently considering my (relatively) unsophisticated commentary. He made me feel worthy.
    But the fishing trip is my ‘Miles Place’ when I saw my most favourite side of him. I can’t pinpoint exactly why; it’s just the memory of that weekend that makes me smile most – even more than his stories of casting Belize – or the X-mas you two locked yourselves secretly in your home while making everyone believe you were out-of-country.
    A couple of months ago I reconnected with a friend I haven’t seen for nearly 15 years. Scrolling through updates on our various mutual friends, the person he asked about first was Miles. Seriously.
    I had completely forgotten, but apparently I brought him to your house on one of the weekends we visited our friends in Calgary. He met you and Miles only once – but clearly Miles made an impression on him. Who’s surprised? “Mr. McCoy” (yes, I know he’d hate that) could make an impression in only one pass.
    I’m so sorry I missed Miles’ service. I was just leaving the country when I got Margaret’s message asking for people’s memories of him. You were in my thoughts that day. I know he faced struggles in the most recent months... challenging some of those caring for him to meet his expectations. That staunchness doesn’t surprise me; I had often admired to myself, his tenacity, resolution and even surly endurance. Wooly bugger 
    I empathize with you, your loss, Elaine. I know the connection you two had was so much deeper and more intricate and complex than I think many people appreciate. I envy that mysterious interdependence and I admire your subsequent strength – though I’m certain it can’t be at all easy. He was (and you know he knew it) lucky to have shared his life with someone as worthy as you. And I know you feel the same way about him. Distance and space and geography and circumstance may be between us – but know you’re not alone.

    Brad Stromberg

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  165. Dear Dad:
    It has taken me sometime to put this up on your blogspot. I miss you very much, even though in the later years I didn't get the opportunity of seeing you much. Fond memories of our special walks and talks enter my mind. Your lion's roar through the house when we were all at home and the giant sneeze's that rocked the paintings on the walls. The fun times we would sit for hours at Sunday meals talking about politics, philosophy, history or anything that came upon us.

    It has only been 3 days since what would have been your 90th birthday and it is now time to post my letter that I wrote in January.

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  166. Dear Dad:
    As I write this letter, I look over the years remembering all the gifts you have given to me.
    As a tiny girl scared of the ghosts and goblins that hide in my closet. I hear a bump. I awake scared and whimpering in my bed. My door opens slowly. A beam of light flows into my room. Two huge arms scoop me up and carry me to the big comfy chair at the end of my bed. Special words and whisperings to me, while I am rocked gently and lovingly to sleep.
    Fond memories of sun beams flowing through the window slates in our front door. I feel the warmth on the rug as we lie on it - laughing and looking at each other. We play with puss n’ boots my special cat that you have given to me.

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  167. We sit in the boat. In silence; in awe of the beauty that surrounds us. The majesty of the mountains. The shimmer on the lake. Cool steam waves ripple up from the water while bugs buzz around. We wait patiently, and then snap! Excitement while we catch the rainbow trout to cook around the campfire. Watching and listening to all the stories and tales on the shore and warmth of the fire.
    Listening to daffy duck on the Dictaphone when my Dad takes me to his work. I play silently by his side. He then turns to me. He asks me what I would do if I was the lawyer or judge and what things I might “say or see”.
    Saturday’s - opening the fridge looking for leftovers to make into Mile’s magical stew. Always, adding that special ingredient or curry along with that special story. The laughing, the enjoyment of hearing your voice and the peace and happiness all around us.
    A dollhouse special to me. Different then any other girl’s. Specially made out of logs; on its own table with the furniture, window coverings, dolls - all thought through with meticulous care and love.

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  168. A pony with a spotted bum as we spent summers riding and smelling the wheat and clover fields around.
    Knowing that every ballet performance my Dad would be waiting at the sidelines with a bouquet of flowers. Hugs as well and tales of how proud he was of me.
    How many joyful memories my dad gave to me? Time will go on. They never end and will always be a part of me.
    Taking ski lesson’s as a family. Christmas day skiing then Turkey. Walks along the shores of the lake near Exshaw in the darkness of the night. Smells of pine, crunch of needles under our feet. Above us a clear sky. Showing me all the wondrous constellations and telling stories of the Aurora Borealis. No one around just my Dad and me. To spoil me in that moment.

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  169. Thoughtfullness of purchasing The Lord of the Rings on Onion Paper. Mountain climbing, ballet, fishing, camping, driving, skiing, riding, badminton, tennis and many more adventures and classes that any child would love to have. Trips to foreign places, world’s fair, science fairs, art galleries, philharmonic and history. Anything to intrigue the mind and continue to improve the world around us. No one can take those away from me.
    The gift and memories of helping me – wedding, births, moves, grandchildren, homes, jobs, a listening ear, support and understanding. That sneeze that rocked the paintings on the walls of our home. The booming power of Mother Miles’ voice in command of our house while we were all under one roof.
    A Dad whose mind was clear and there for me, yet a body that gave out on thee.
    Special gifts that my Dad gave me. Miles it is, your first name in its entirety means to me: M for Mother Miles who stood by and guiding me, I for Integrity always exceeding and being the best you could be; L for the continuous love he gave me - your legacy (Miles Holland and Matthew Patterson plus all of the family – children, grandchildren, great grandchildren plus more as history and time will give to thee); E for energy of purpose and guidance, - education as I learnt from a life of watching and listening to you, S for strength and stubbornness to live life fully. For Nosrettap and laughs you still bring to me.
    Dad this is but a short letter of the many gifts you gave me.

    Dad I love you always.
    Your Daughter Pamela Patterson and my loving memories of thee.

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  170. Dad there are many more gifts I have received but as of late. You and Elaine know that I own an old fashioned candy store. The gift of researching, finding out the history of candy you have given me. I have been knicknamed the Candy lady or the Willy Wonka store as I talk with customers about what is in the candies and the history. I know that you have given me that special gift and loveand thank you for it. Dad, your granddaughter and my daughter was also, given as a gift to me - both you and her share that special day that you were brought into this world. I trust you are in a better place as I know that Elaine and all of cherish the moments that you were a part of our lives. It is hard to say goodbye to you.

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  171. Mr Patterson,as i fondly call him,is a very soft spoken,kind,and intelligent person.i had that chance of looking after him in his condo unit for nearly 6 years.in all those years that i was with him, i came to know him on a personal level.i learned a lot about fishing,politics,laws in canada,and cooking canadian food.all those time that i spent sitting while listening to him talk, while smoke and drink his favorite brandy(cognac) is all worth it.i never find any dull moments with him when he starts talking...i introduce to him some filipino dishes which he eventually likes....stir fry sardines with scrambled eggs and dinuguan(filipino dish with pork mixed with pigs blood)...and to show his gratitude to me,he gave a chopping board with his name on it,miles howard patterson,which up to this time is still very visible in my kitchen,that when i look at it or use it ,im always reminded of him and elaine...thank you for all the wonderful memories mr patterson.i will always cherish it as long as i live...goodbye for now and i thank God for making me meet a wonderful person like you in my life time,that if ever God will give me another life,i will still choose you to be a part of it.....

    forever grateful(to you miles and elaine)
    jose zerna
    calgary

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